I wasn't going to write a new blog for a while, but today in church something happened that just sort of forced my hand. And, like most blog posts born of something unexpected...this doesn't make me look all that great.
I don't know when it was that Hubby and I started taking travel mugs of coffee into church. I mean, we made the diaper bag of snacks to single Life Savers roll jump pretty well when the kids got older. But at some point a few years ago the two of us started bringing our coffee to church. We weren't the only ones, and we weren't the first, but we are the most consistent coffee drinkers. Since our pews don't come with cup holders...and seriously, can someone just get on that please...we typically put our travel mugs on the floor under the pew in front of us. That way we can see the mugs, reach for the mugs, but the people in front of us won't kick the mugs over.
And it's been a practice that's served us really well without a hitch or without comment.
Today we sat a few pews further back than we normally do. Regular church goers get the whole, "This is my pew" thing. It's not that we OWN the pew, really, it's just that that's where we always sit and frankly if a visitor, or, worse, a SECOND SERVICE person sits in our spot, well, that throws the whole thing into commotion. It's why special services, like on Christmas and Thanksgiving and Easter tend to throw regular church people into a bit of confusion. SOMEONE is sitting in the WRONG spot.
Well today we sat a bit further back, which put us behind a family that had a couple young ones. Diaper bag snacks and sippy cup young ones. Bring all sorts of books and quiet toys because face it, church is dull for little ones and they simply won't be quiet and the worst thing in the world is for a kid to belt out "ARE WE DONE YET?" young ones.
The elder of the juniors seemed to have some sort of innate distrust for me. He kept staring at me, like I was really, really, really creepy and he was going to pierce my brain with the strength of his mental waves.
Okay, maybe church isn't always supers thrilling for grown ups, either.
Anyway, Elder Junior got tired of trying to stare me down, and got a hit off his sippy cup before sitting on the floor and playing with trucks, using the pews as a sort of table.
I love watching kids play on the floor during church. I mean, think about it. All the adults are super busy sitting, standing, singing, chanting, praying, whatever, but you, as a little kid, you haven't a clue what that's all about. All you know is that if you are very quiet, they'll give you a sippy cup and a bag of Cheerios and you can sit on the floor and be in a world all your own.
And the best part of playing on the floor in church is that magical spot UNDER THE PEW. It's like endless tunnels and the only thing between you and complete escape are miles of legs.
Well Elder Junior decided to move his trucks to the floor, where 1) there was more space and 2) he entered that magical under the pew world. We were pretty deep into the sermon when Hubby nudged me. Apparently, Elder Junior was playing really, really, really close to my travel mug.
Now, I could have said that I moved the mug because it contained hot coffee and I didn't want the kid to burn himself. And that would be true, except, not completely. I wasted no time moving my travel mug out of reach because, well, THAT'S MY SIPPY CUP!
Elder Junior understood that we were now in a territorial battle, but that he'd won. Victorious, he stood up, and got another hit off his sippy cup. I took a sip of coffee and we eyed one another. For a moment, we were equals.
And then he got to return to playing on the floor while I had to return to listening to the sermon.
Well played, Elder Junior. Well played.
But someday, child, you will be too old to play on the floor. Your parents and grandparents will not allow you to bring a sippy cup to church. You will languish under this rule as you watch me drink coffee to my heart's content.
And then I will be victorious.
Meanwhile...I wonder who I'll be displacing for the next fifteen years now that I have a new place to sit. Too bad. They should have been in church and then I would have sat in my usual spot and none of this would have happened.
Sunday, October 12, 2014
Friday, October 3, 2014
Irony, that is the name of my life's story.
When I was in kindergarten (through fourth grade, but this story takes place in kindergarten), I went to school in a two room school. My classroom was home to 36 students in grades K-4. (So you'll pardon me if I don't weep for educators now who talk about overcrowding in classrooms. Mrs. Zimmerman, my teacher, juggled all subjects except gym for give grades and we all learned how to read, write, spell, do math, follow the rules, and be kind to each other. It was crowded, but we all had a desk, most of them from the Flint School District after a school burned down...they smelled of smoke, but we didn't know any better.) Anyway, as the youngest kids in the room, we got to listen to the classes the older kids were doing because when you're packed into a room with 35 other kids, you spend time coloring and listening. And reading and listening. And silently participating with a class at your desk...while you're listening.
I was mostly interested in what the first graders were doing because, frankly, I wasn't quite sure exactly what was going on with the way older kids, the fourth graders. They were talking about things called fractions, which sounded strange, although there was a lot of talk about cutting pies, which was nice. But first grade, I figured I'd listen to that and get ahead for the next year.
One of the things I just knew, I just KNEW was going to be a problem for me was something they called "fill in the blanks."
|It would break your arm if you had to|
crank out more than 5 copies...but
the smell was worth it!
See, it was the seventies, and there were 36 kids in five grades in the room. Mrs. Z. relied on worksheets. And one of the worksheets she used for first grade was the "fill in the blanks" worksheets. It was part of their reading class and the deal was they had a sentence that had a missing word, a blank, in it. Below the sentence were three words that looked alike and the student had to pick the correct word and write it in the blank.
At age 4/5 (I started school very young, another story for another day) I was convinced I wouldn't be able to read well enough to pick out the right word. I watched some of those first graders crash and burn as they read their choices out loud. (As a side note, people wonder why I've never ever had a problem with public speaking...I give a lot of the credit to my young years in a multi grade classroom...you had to speak up and you had to do it in front of people.)
I snuck a peak at those sheets when Mrs. Z was busy with some other class. All those blue letters on that white paper with the grainy blue dots from the mimeograph machine in the office. I knew the 8th graders were the only ones allowed to crank copies out on that machine. I loved the smell of freshly mimeoed pages...and I wasn't alone. It was the first high most of us in the 70's enjoyed. I looked at those sheets and I was convinced I'd never get out of the first grade because fill in the blank was going to kill me.
Anyway, I shared my fears with my mother and she told me I would be just fine.
Flash forward some forty years. Sitting at my desk I realized something yesterday: I'm living my greatest childhood fear. I spend my days sitting at my desk filling in the blank on paperwork, on plumbing forms, on computer credit card payments, on financing payments. All day long I fill in the blank.
It might just kill me yet.
Okay, just a few fun things that happened this week because I love to share. With PM gone now two weeks, we've learned to be a little self sufficient. Well, okay, NGTJ and I have. Captain Nubbin just runs around with his cell phone to his ear swearing. And when he does sit down, it's to call an irate customer who's irate mostly because we're short installers (they keep quitting.) and in order to get our stuff installed, we have to get what I call "rent-a-mules" from the corporate office. One would think the corporate guys would be super excellent at installing stuff.
One would be wrong.
Anyway, so while I'm learning new skills and NGTJ is learning new skills some things don't change. Last week I took a call from a little old lady who informed me that the shower doors we'd installed for her needed service.
"What's wrong with them?" I ask.
"They aren't working properly." says she.
"Are they not closing, or are they leaking?" You would be amazed at just what can go wrong with shower doors. You'd think it would be simple. If it opens when you want it opened and closes when you want it closed, and kept the water in the shower when you were using the shower, that should be it, right?
Again, you'd be wrong. People call me all day long with gripes about shower doors. I want to tell them that shower doors get wet when the shower is on and when you open a pivot shower door after running the shower, a few drops of water are going to get on the floor. See, because when you wave a wet thing over a dry thing a little wet is going to get on the dry. People believe because they bought a door it should keep the floor bone dry no matter what.
People are wrong.
But that wasn't this woman's problem. "Well, see, they are too loud."
"What's too loud?"
"The shower doors."
I looked at her records. She had slide by shower doors, the kind you see in most tub/shower combinations. When you slide the doors there's a bit of a rumble because the doors are mounted on wheels over head. But it's not that loud.
"Ma'am, are you saying the doors are banging into each other?"
"No. They make a loud noise when I close them."
"Like what kind of a noise?"
Okay...."Are they hard to open and close?"
"Oh no. They move just fine."
At this point I just want to bang my head on my desk. "Ma'am are you saying that when you move the doors you hear a rumbling noise and that's the only problem?"
"Yes. They are just too loud."
I'm short handed right now and I'm just not sending a tech out to look at doors that are operating exactly the way they should be. "Ma'am, I have to tell you, I believe the doors are fine. There's going to be a certain amount of rumbling when you open and close them because they're mounted on wheels."
"But are they too loud?" At this point she holds the phone up to the doors and moves them. Ah...the elderly with cordless phones.
"No, Ma'am, I'm going to tell you, those doors are the exact amount of loudness for the type you bought."
"Really? Oh, okay them. We're quite happy in that case."
See, in order to be good at customer service, all you have to do is know how to communicate with the dimwitted.
One final note all. It's October and I promised you a book by the end of December. If that's going to happen, I have to get at it and really, really work. So I'm starting my own NANOWRIMO a month early. I'll be away from the blog for a while until I get a good grip on the new book. But I promise you, it'll be worth it!
While I'm gone go ahead, read back blogs. I know you all haven't read all of them!
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